Do You Want To Deflate Conflict? - Day 581

Dissolve conflict by switching from a need to be understood to a need to understand.  Think now of someone that you’re banging up against, locking horns or standing firm…then dissolve this gridlock by changing tact from talk to listening.  Then watch as the space you’ve given them to breathe and open up, releases tension in both of you, and you made this giant step.